If you have never had a reading before, please read this!
You should be prepared to have an open heart and mind during your read. Directing the reader's work with all of your questions and giving too much information upfront is usually not a good idea. Also, asking only what you want to know, is not the ticket either, that would be once again,,,leading!
The window of opportunity is so limited due to messages that can come across as words, pictures, sounds, smells, tastes and sympathetic feelings and the reader has a short time to usually decipher the meaning of what they are receiving....BE PATIENT!
Not all readers may get the names exactly as they are, but usually coming close or only off by one letter/ or sounding similar ...every reader is different
I may sometimes have the name right and even the realtionship to you, but that depends on how clearly the reception is coming across that particular moment. Hey, I have even gotten nicknames, but that doesn't happen for every session.
Most importantly, be aware that this work can easily tire one out. It is work like any other work, with the exception that our energy can be depleted even with the strongest forms of prayer and protection.
So, when the message is done...don't be demanding more and more, it is just not that easy to keep pressing for more information. Take the time to understand and process all the information you have been given.